Be a good creator and co-creator of your own life!

[Tristan Tay]

Often heard of someone complaining that they should not be in the state that they are supposed to be? Giving all sorts of fantastic reasons that they should be someone better or living a better life? Blaming everything they can but themselves?

Every single day, there will be someone complaining about bad things that happen to them. How can anyone improve themselves daily and have a better mindset in life?

Try to approach all your problems and decision making in a different way. This approach will definitely will help you better in life.

First of all ask yourself if you are the creator of your situation today?

Secondly ask yourself if you are not the creator, are you the co-creator?

An example question “Who created your financial status today?” If your reply is your boss, then who choose this?

See the point here? Usually you are either the creator if not the co-creator of your outcome today. From here we know that by blaming someone else is just an excuse to make one feel better. Outcomes are cause by bad decision made previously. In order to make good outcomes we have to make better decisions before it is too late.

Approach your daily decision making in a wiser way by understanding the different outcomes that will happen if you made a bad decision. Make a backup plan for yourself if something bad happens. No one can make no mistakes, but we can prevent or minimize making one.

This way you can have a better and happier life!

[Tristan Tay]

Hi Melissa,

It is not about changing anything. Its about making a better decision =)
What decision made in the past is the past. What decision you make today may change your life forever.

Reflecting problems, most people never notice they are the co-creator and if they notice this, they can make better and wiser decision in the future.

Tristan

[Melissa Wilkins]

Hi Tristan

My partner wrote a book once and in it he said that "you can't change the past", so why worry about it.

I can send you a copy if your like.

Melissa

[Aussiegirl Lori]

Yes Tristan, my grandmother had a quote which was " Everyday in your life is a brick, by the time you reach your thirties, you have built the house you live in" We are products of our own creation Regards Lori

[Michaelng Clayton]

Hi Tristan thanks for sharing your wisdom with us. I did make many mistakes when I was young as I was very action orientated. Now day I reflect on what I learned from my previous mistakes and tend to do more research. Great subject and should make us all think before we act.